To be blunt I’m an old man to many. I’m actually lucky to have even figured out the computer enough to search the internet yet alone create a blog post! So, to be frank, this shows how far I’ve come. I know you don’t know me but believe when I say I know what you’re going through.
I’m a guy that’s over the hill and heading up the next who has been divorced from my wife of 20 something years. After awhile they all kind of blend together. The question is why did we get divorced? That’s kind of what everyone asks once they realize you and your spouse split up. Honestly, it could have been a number of things. I say she ripped my heart out, she says I ignored her. Etcetc. All I know is that it was the most devastating event to hit the my world. I thought it was something I could never get over until years later when I decided enough is enough.
I forced myself to get back out there. First I tried online dating and that was a great sect way for things to come. Now I’m a dating fiend with all the single for singles. I couldn’t be happier. I realized I was being very selfish by loathing in my self pity. There is so much more out there. So, now I’m here and I’m going to let you know what worked for me so others don’t have to waste 5 years like I did trying to understand.
Will I ever get married again? Who knows, and honestly I don’t really care at this point. I’m just having fun dating like I would have if I didn’t get married fresh out of high school.